Dear Graham
My husband died three months ago. We had been married for 18 years: a love/hate relationship with passionate arguments but a deep love and an almost telepathic bond.
Six weeks after he died in traumatic circumstances in hospital, I went to see a medium. I hadn’t been there at the moment of his death and I wanted – I don’t know, his forgiveness, maybe.
The medium passed on statements from him about things he couldn’t possibly have known, such as me having my wedding ring in my bag and the shoes I’d worn at his funeral being too tight (they were – I’d worn them at our wedding).
The medium said there was “so much love” for me emanating from my husband. But he also said he hadn’t always been truthful. That is the understatement of the century. He has left chaos behind in both his business and his personal life.
Now I don’t know whether I want to “visit” him again: my heart leapt at...
